Community rules and etiquette
Be 18 or over. Get a clear yes from everyone. Respect privacy. Never share or take photos of other people. Don't pressure anyone or ask for money. Leave when someone says no. Our Terms and Conditions set out the full legal rules.
What we ask of every member
| Rule | In practice |
|---|---|
| Be 18 or over | This community is for adults only. No exceptions. |
| Consent first | A clear yes, every time. Stop when anyone says stop. |
| Respect privacy | Never share anyone's name, photos, messages or details outside the site. |
| No photos or filming | Never record anyone without their clear consent. |
| Be who you say you are | Real details, real photos of yourself. Free ID verification shows others you are genuine. |
| No pressure | Accept no for an answer. Never keep messaging someone who has said no. |
| No money requests | No selling sex and no asking for payment, gifts or "deposits". |
| Keep it legal | No illegal content, no threats, no harassment, no hate. |
Etiquette when you meet
Anyone who has been around for a while will tell you the same few things. Talk first. Be clear about what you want and what is off the table. Respect the signals people give, and leave if someone does. Keep out of sight of everyone who hasn't agreed to see you. Take your rubbish home.
Reporting a problem
If a member breaks these rules, report them from inside your account. Save the messages first. If you feel in danger, call 999.
These rules sit alongside our Terms and Conditions, which are the full legal agreement.
Questions people ask
Do I need to be 18?
Yes. This site and the community are for adults aged 18 and over only.
Can I share photos or videos of other people?
No. Never share photos, video or details of anyone without their clear consent.
Can I ask people for money?
No. This is not a place to sell sex or to ask other members for money.
How do I report a member?
Use the report option inside your account. Save any messages first.
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